The grieving process and related formal and informal rituals through which we mourn the passing of a loved one, is important for the health and wellbeing of the bereaved, and at North Lincolnshire Council we understand the important of memorials.
Whilst we completely understand the desire to remember loved ones, fencing and decoration(s) outside those permitted within our rules and regulations, make it very difficult for our grounds team to effectively maintain and care for the cemetery; it can also cause upset and distress to other families with loved ones in the same area.
Only accredited memorial fixers are permitted to erect memorials.
The council has overall responsibility for the health and safety of all visitors to our cemeteries. This includes testing the stability of the headstone and in certain circumstances, it will be necessary to lay the headstone down or alternatively, make safe with a support. We will endeavour to contact you. However, if your contact details are out of date, a sign will be left by the memorial.
59. In all cases, an application for a memorial must be made by the holder of the Exclusive Right of Burial, and where the owner is deceased, the transfer of ownership must have taken place and the Right held by a ‘living’ owner(s).
60. All memorials must be installed in accordance with the current NAMM Code of Working Practice and BS8415.
61. Masons undertaking the installation of memorials must be appropriately qualified and insured, this can be evidenced individually or through their registration with a nationally recognised memorial fixers accreditation scheme.
62. Applications for permission for the right to install a new memorial, replace or add inscriptions to existing memorials, can only be made by the registered grave owner. An application fee is payable in advance.
63. Rules apply as to the type, size, style, all memorial designs, and inscriptions. Applications must be approved prior to installation.
64. Application for approval to place any memorial in the cemeteries, alter or add to any inscription, or replace, add to, or remove from the cemeteries any memorial, must be submitted to the Bereavement Services office on the appropriate Application Form (available from the office).
65. Prior approval is required before any work is undertaken. Any approval is issued on the understanding that the work undertaken will fully comply with the details provided on the Permit Application Form and the requirements of these Regulations.
Any work that does not comply will not be permitted to remain in the cemeteries and may be removed without notice – the cost of this will be charged to the person who carried out the unauthorised work.
A permit and prior approval are also required for the professional cleaning, up righting, relevelling and the repair of an existing memorial and the refurbishing of inscriptions.
An approval is required for repair of existing lettering and/or inscriptions.
66. A memorial may only be erected on a grave space within the cemeteries in accordance with these Regulations with the approval of the Bereavement Services Manager and upon payment of the appropriate fee. The Right to erect a memorial will be for the unexpired portion of the Exclusive Right of Burial.
67. Memorials will not be permitted to be installed until at least 6 months after the date of a full interment, or 8 weeks in the case of cremated remains*. This allows for settlement of the soil within the grave plot; this should then ensure the stability and longevity of the memorial.
It should be noted that the ground conditions from cemetery to cemetery differ and further settlement of ground may take place; it is your selected stone mason’s responsibility to take this into account when fixing memorials.
68. Headstones shall be placed at the head end of a grave. Inscriptions are only permitted on one side of the headstone and shall face the length of the grave.
69. Following installation, the Memorial Mason must issue a certificate of compliance to the council, confirming the memorial has been installed in accordance with the current NAMM Code of Working Practice in compliance with BS 8415.
70. The stability of the memorial is the mason’s responsibility; memorials fixed in compliance to the current NAMM Code of Working Practice ensures compliance with BS8415 and confirms the mason has done all possible to meet their responsibility. This applies to new memorials, reinstated or re- levelled memorials, where all fixing components and materials including foundations must comply with current NAMM Code of Working Practice and BS8415 requirements.
71. A lawned grave memorial, shall have a base fixed on a foundation of hard stone or reinforced concrete in accordance with the NAMM Code of Working Practice. The memorial base may incorporate one or two flower containers and include up to two vases, tablets, or figures so long as they shall comply with these Regulations shall not extend beyond the perimeter of the base.
72. Pre-cast foundations for lawned grave memorials constructed from reinforced concrete, should have a smooth finish and be not less than 75mm thick. Hard stone foundations with a density of at least 2400 kg/m³ such as granite and horizontally bedded Silica stones (such as York stone) are acceptable for lawn grave memorial foundations provided they are of good quality.
73. Cast in situ foundations are permitted, however, must comply with specifications set out in the NAMM Code of Working Practice. If using this method, details of installation must be provided with the memorial application and approved before any groundwork commences.
74. A memorial of concrete, Bath or soft Caen stone, pottery, plastic, or fibreglass is not permitted and will be removed and disposed of without notice. The cost of removal and disposal will be charged to the person(s) who erected the memorial.
75. Any wording and images should be appropriate to the setting being a cemetery in a public place and must be deemed appropriate at the time of application. In matters of propriety, North Lincolnshire Council’s Bereavement Services decision is final.
76. Photographic plaques, not exceeding dimensions of 13cms, may be affixed to headstones or bronze plaques only.
77. The name of the memorial mason, section and grave numbers must be incised, or incised and inlaid, to match the main inscription, in figures up to 20mm high on the top rear of the memorial and, if present, on the corner of kerbing at the foot of the grave. Only the memorial masons name, section, and grave number shall be permitted on the rear face of the memorial.
78. No hewing or dressing of stone, other than cutting of an inscription, will be permitted in the cemeteries.
79. All materials and equipment shall be conveyed in the cemeteries in such a manner as to prevent risk of injury, damage to walks, paths, roads or turfed areas and all soil or waste material shall be removed from the cemeteries immediately in a professional manner. Protective mats, boards, or canvass shall be used to minimise damage to lawned areas.
80. The Bereavement Services office must be informed on an approved form, of the removal of any memorial from cemeteries.
81. The removal and re-erection of a memorial to facilitate the re-opening of a private grave or vault, or to level such a grave or vault, shall be at the expense of the owner of the Exclusive Right of Burial. Any person removing a memorial to permit further interment shall either safely remove the memorial from the cemeteries after informing the Bereavement Services office or place it in a position indicated by the Bereavement Services Manager.
82. Any memorial removed from a grave to facilitate an interment shall be replaced as soon as possible after the first anniversary of the last interment, if not before.
83. Any memorial erected in the cemeteries remains there at the sole risk of and must be kept in good state of repair by the owner of the Exclusive Right of Burial at his/her expense. The council reserves the right to remove, and dispose of without notice, any memorial not kept in a good state of repair and considered likely to present a health and safety risk. (Local Authorities’ Cemeteries Order 1977).
84. The council reserves the right to exclude or remove and dispose of without notice, from the cemeteries any memorial not installed in accordance with these regulations, or which is considered unsafe.
85. The council reserves the right to remove, without notice, any memorial and take any precautions necessary to safeguard the council’s employees or contractors when digging graves adjacent to any memorial. Note: All possible precautions will be taken to minimise the risk of damage occurring to memorials being disturbed in order to facilitate this necessity.
86. All personnel employed on behalf of the owner of the Exclusive Right of Burial to erect any memorial or to perform work on existing vault, memorial etc. shall:
- Perform the work in possession of the issued permit, during normal opening hours of the office:
- Monday to Friday 8.45am to 4:30pm
- Ensure the grave is left in a tidy condition, remove off site, all waste and unwanted material, and make good any damage or injury whatsoever occasioned in the process of the work.
- Provide their own tools and equipment which must be in a serviceable condition.
- Any person wanting to carry out work outside of the permitted hours, must inform the Bereavement Services office, a minimum of 48 hours before.